Technology, or the lack thereof, proved to be one of our greatest challenges living next door to a national forest. For years, we lived with dial-up internet and a roof-mount TV antenna. On a clear day, if you were lucky, you might find six or seven watchable channels.
When we finally swapped shingles for a shiny new metal roof, we decided to replace the antenna with satelliteTV. Suddenly, we went from a handful of channels on a good day to 120 selections available around the clock. My husband enjoyed the sci-fi and history programming, while I discovered the wonders of the Food Channel and HGTV. Life got even better once we added smartphones with unlimited data to our entertainment options.
All this technology is the backdrop to one of our most memorable marital misunderstandings. One night, while hubby worked late, I enjoyed some of my favorite shows and perused Pinterest. One particular post that piqued my interest featured a kitchen update with faux-wood ceiling beams. They looked like wood but were touted as a great option for do-it-yourself installation. What a cool way to update our otherwise “standard issue” kitchen!
My husband had been in the door all of two minutes when I excitedly shared my discovery. Surprisingly, he immediately scowled. “That is the dumbest thing I’ve heard you come up with yet.”
Surprised and irritated, I shot back. “It isn’t dumb at all! I saw a kitchen tonight that had them and they looked great.”
“I think you’re watching too much HGTV,” said hubby, shaking his head as he walked past me to hang up his coat.
Following at his heels, I retorted, “I didn’t see it on HGTV. I saw it on Pinterest! Are you telling me you won’t even consider it?”
“I don’t have to consider it! It’s dumb!”
“Why won’t you at least hear me out?”
Hubby sighed. “First it’s pebbles on the floor. Now it’s beans on the ceiling.”
“Beans? Who said anything about beans?”
“You did! You said you want to put beans on our ceiling!”
“Not beans… BEAMS! I want to put BEAMS on our ceiling!”
We had a good laugh after we realized our misunderstanding. I never got those beams on the ceiling, but we still laugh about that conversation years later.
Such moments become the shared memories that last a lifetime.
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